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The Inheritance Of Acquired Traits

Today the little man is, officially, six years old. He’s a bit confused about that though, being as we had his birthday party last weekend. But on that day he received many wondrous gifts. Naturally there have been a few standout favorites (two from me, for instance, but who loves ya baby?) though every day this week we’ve spent some time with a different, new present. Last night it was Spell Time, a word game that we both enjoyed. I mostly liked watching him because he was focusing so intently on figuring each word out. And while he was spelling out the words I realized two things: one, I hope he grows up to be a big word game geek (so I’ll have someone to play with). And two, I hadn’t yet done my Arabic homework, and class is tonight (I hope the little man doesn’t become a procrastinator, like me). Our first class was last week, and it was wonderful. But I can already tell that the spoken language is going to be far easier for me than the written…which is the opposite of the experience I had when attempting to learn French…but it is a whole new alphabet to learn.

spell time game

Just Add Water

And now for another exciting update regarding my medical condition(s). Can you stand it? Well, prepare to be disappointed. I know I was. There was no CAT Scan (which is for the best, really, since I realized this morning that I have no idea how to get my captive bead ring earrings out - they’ve been in since ‘97 and I’d need a pliers, and some help). Turns out my family doc and this neurologist had different ideas regarding next steps. But the neurologist is the specialist so hey, I guess I’ll trust him. For the moment. Even though it means I’ll be taking anti-seizure meds for the next month, and then going back in for another damned follow-up appointment…with the possibility of an MRI, depending on how effective the drugs are. Guess I’ll have to get my earrings out before then, just in case.

During The Deadly Brain-leakage Afternoon Office Hours

Lately I’ve been feeling simultaneously overwhelmed

and disconnected, for a number of reasons. First and foremost…my body has betrayed me, with this mammoth migraine I haven’t been able to shake. It’s been waxing and waning for the last six weeks or so (mostly waxing) but never completely dissipating. So this afternoon my stubborness takes a break, and I’ll be seeing a neurologist for the first time. I believe I’ll even be having a CAT Scan. Oh joy.

In other news…I signed up for yet another web service. Now I can waste my time at upcoming.org too. But it reminded me to buy tickets to the upcoming Andrew Bird show, led me to discover that The Arcade Fire show has been sold out for a while now (blast and damn), and made me thankful that a friend bought our Decemberists tickets, even if he may not be able to go to the show after all.

Approximations Of What I Had In Mind

The party wasn’t perfect. The day was too hot. And I misplaced that extra package of water balloons. And I should have put out more finger foods for the picky kids. And a few guests who RSVPd didn’t end up showing. And I forgot to bring the soy ice cream out with the cake, but wound up leaving it on the kitchen counter overnight instead…so when I walked in this morning it was just a melted soupy mess. But still. Friends came, good food was eaten, and fun was had. And the little man scored some serious swag, as usual. Today we rest.

card made by neighbor kids

Among The Occasionally Deluded

I was just going to lie down for a little while. You know, rest my eyes for a spell before heading to the party. But that’s how it happens every time. When the ladies called to check in on me the husband told them I was already sound asleep. It wasn’t even 9pm. So there went my Friday night. Saturday I managed to get the little man to the Walker Art Center’s family day. But we arrived late, and didn’t stick around for too long. Sunday morning we did make it to Anodyne, to meet up with the ladies at 8:30am, so two out of three (plans coming together) ain’t bad. The rest of the weekend was rather quiet. The guys played the GameCube entirely too much while I devoured any books that came near me (it’s the most effective way to ignore my To Do list, and the World at Large, and to ignore the guilt of ignoring both, and it also helps keep the migraines at bay). Friday afternoon I started reading Reflex, the sequel to Jumper, and finished it Saturday morning. Then it was on to Sean Stewart’s Perfect Circle, which I quite enjoyed (I’ve liked his other books as well). Next up was Nina Kiriki Hoffman’s A Fistful Of Sky. Soon I’ll need to pick upThe Hollow Chocolate Bunnies of the Apocalypse, which was recommended to me, by someone whose opinion I trust. But I’d pick it up just for the title alone. Apparently some fans of Jasper Fforde are fond of it, and I certainly am a Fforde fan. Also another fantastic title, this non-fiction selection, Tiny Ladies in Shiny Pants, looks like it’s up my alley. But for now, it’s the start of another work week and school week, with assorted errands, tasks and chores heaped on top of the daily grind. Yay.
Plus: A roundup of some music-related Katrina relief efforts.

Oh I’d Love To Wear A Rainbow Everyday…

On this, the first day of September, there is too much to report.

  • First off, waferbaby is back, and I am glad of it…even if it is a bittersweet sort of return.
  • Another fine episode of Making Fiends (#19) is up, and you can Get a Grudge (Vendetta’s large fiend-hamster, on a t-shirt) while you’re over there.
  • In a few days, long-time friend and sometimes collaborator Cathy Camper is on the move, to Portland. I hope all goes well, especially with driving the cats cross country.
  • The little man’s main kindergarten teacher is on the move too, unfortunately. Their schoolyear just started in July…but today was her last day. There’s a long story behind it, one that I’m not privy to, but I wish her the best. And can’t help but hope for a replacement nearly as good as she was, at least. Sigh.
  • Lately I’ve read about “The Two Body Problem” in more than one place. Naturally I think in terms of Science Fiction, so this sounds much more sinister than it really is…maybe I’ll spin it into a short story.
  • There’s a Children’s Book Festival coming up that looks pretty neat, even if it is in the ‘burbs. Sadly it’s the same day as the little man’s 6th birthday party. This is a dilemma that the Two Body Problem could, theoretically, solve. Hmmm.
  • Yesterday I listened to Kaia’s song Off for the first time in years, and it evoked memories and feelings of a very specific window of time. Also went on a bit of a Nina Simone bender (the iPod currently has 49 of her songs on it), and that’s bound to make anyone moody.
  • I get my daily dose of reality every evening, when I turn NPR on while making dinner. The news is never good. Yesterday I was horrified by disasters, both human-made (the bridge stampede in Baghdad) and natural (the aftermath of Hurricane Katrina). And I can’t wrap my head around either.

Bonus: I wish this event had happened when I was actually in San Francisco: Neil Gaiman, in conversation with Michael Chabon. Two of my very favorite authors. Oh well.

A Whole Lot Of Aching Going On

Still recovering from the weekend. Saturday was idyllic. Sunday was pure hell. Woke up with another damned migraine and spent the entire day flat on my back in a dark room. And I had plans. Plans within plans. All for naught. Still feeling the lingering effects of it - exhaustion (yes, even though I was just lying down all day pain will wear a person out), tenderness, achiness and sensitivity to light, sound and smells. Oh so much fun to be me. But it’d better not happen again next weekend. Maria, who showed us such a good time in the Bay Area, will be here for a few days. Friday night there’s a pirate party to attend, and Sunday morning a brunch thingie. And on Saturday…Stories with Sara, at the Walker Art Center. Sara being Sara Varon, comic book artist extraordinaire. Should be fun. Also fun and family-friendly…I’d long heard rumors of a cool Japanese exhibit coming to the Minnesota Children’s Museum. Rumor is becoming a reality. Jump to Japan opens September 24th, complete with the cat bus and a giant stuffed Totoro. Not sure who will be more excited, the little man or myself.
Bonus:…double-breasted jackets make short men look like small tough meaty boxes
Plus: Maybe it was the wicked witch?

Science Suffers From Invincible Ignorance

Some Saturday morning randomness.
I’ve been bewitched by our new 12.5″ non-stick pan. This morning’s blueberry pancakes turned out perfectly, and, if I do say so myself, were the best pancakes I have ever made (recipe here).

For some time now I’ve been looking forward to the new Terry Gilliam movie, The Brothers Grimm, which opened yesterday…but it’s been receiving such gawd-awful reviews. I’m sure I’ll still see it, but I may not be in as big a hurry to. Though it’s been ages since I’ve seen a movie at the theater. Well, one without the little man, at any rate.

When I ask the husband a question, often from the next room over, and do not hear him respond immediately I will repeat myself, slowly and angrily, as though he’s hard of hearing and a non-native English speaker. It usually turns out that he has already responded, but I just didn’t pick up on the soft sounds of his weak kitten-like voice.

On the other end of the spectrum, I can clearly hear the little man’s Play-a-Sound Star Wars book from any room in the house, and though I’ve long had a soft spot for R2-D2, I’ve grown weary of his blipping and beeping. What the hell was I thinking when I sanctioned that purchase?

Bonus: Some email announcement lists are actually useful. Just found out that Andrew Bird (*swoon*) is coming back to town Friday, September 23rd, at the Cedar Cultural Center. I am so there.
Plus: A random pet peeve: Pants that look better from the front than the back, or vice versa. I want it both ways!

Play-a-Sound R2-D2 book

The Study Of Repeatable, Observable, Natural Phenomena

It could be said that the husband and I are not very skilled at prioritizing tasks. For instance, today is trash day. The husband could have cleared out our overflowing wastebaskets and rolled the big trash bin to the curb. Instead he ripped my recently obtained CDs (from Amoeba Records) and loaded up the iPod, so I would have something new to listen to today, in the car and at work. Can I complain? Yes. Too much? Well, no.
Bonus: Hillary has outdone herself. This time she has created a fleece version of His Noodly Appendage, the Flying Spaghetti Monster. Another fabulous photo of it is here. This fleeceity is absolutely divine.
Plus: Been meaning to mention, our very own big Dave has now contributed to his second O’Reilly book, and this one has a cover now and everything (his first book had some sort of monkey on the cover, this time it’s a hawk of some sort).
And: Craziness. Last weekend Spacewaitress rented a taxi and drove people from Point A to Point B. She barely broke even, but it seemed to be an interesting experience at least.
And another thing: 7-how-7 on belated spring cleaning. I can relate.

Une Nuit Sans Lumiére

Woke up remembering bits and pieces of strange dreams. Like, we’d gone up to Montreal to see The Arcade Fire play and it was a house show. But rather than playing in the house they were playing, like, on the front lawn or something…and there was nowhere to stand really so we had to crouch in a cold snowbank on the sidewalk in the dark. And some jerk behind me kept talking loudly during their set and it turned out to be William Shatner (originally of Montreal) and then he got into a wrestling match with Lederhosen Lucil. And then Win Butler tried to take my bendable Hulk action figure that I was clutching ever so tightly (the one that my friend Jeff gave me when I was 15, but has now been claimed by the little man). But then a parade started to go by, up the block, with legions upon legions of baton twirlers only they were twirling flaming sparklers. And then I asked someone if there was anywhere to get vegan pancakes in town. And then I woke up. Weird.
Bonus: An offhand remark by La Coquette has had me craving apricot-filled beignets all week (not to mention lounging in the French countryside, though sans poodles). I sent the husband a recipe and suggested that he might try to find a way to veganize it. Outlook not so good.
Plus: It is time for Chuck to rejoin the Land of the Working Stiffs. He specializes in web/blog/vlog/video stuff. If anyone’s got any leads, let him know.
And: Haven’t had any spare time to write about our trip, so, for now, here’s a smattering of photos (for those of you who haven’t already seen them all on flickr).
first flight

pirate store at 826 Valencia

mossy tree at muir woods

from inside an old tree

the strange little man

at muir beach

a cute urban scrawl

heavenly vegan sundae

chocolate goatee

leaving the golden gate bridge

sandy shoes at ocean beach